The Other Woman Doing Witchcraft

If you’ve ever been told that another woman is doing spells on your love interest, you’re not alone. It’s one of the most common stories people hear in tarot readings, especially when things feel out of control. This article is about why that narrative is so prevalent, and why it’s usually not true.

As I explained here, it's pretty tempting to believe that others are cursing you when your life is hard and miserable and no tangible effort to make things better seems to work. If you had it tough, it's easy to your brain to make connections. I am cursed! A dark spirit is threatening my happiness. You have to believe that there is a reason behind it all.

The revelation ("I'm cursed!") is scary but also provides some kind of confort - now you know what's going on and you can be resolute to solve the problem and escape this cycle of bad luck from something that is external from yourself. At least is not your fault. 

Then, you find out: a "curse" had nothing to do with your misery. After countless pendulum sessions, egg cleansing spells, blessed candles, root work, curse removals or just time and common-sense, you have come to terms with the fact that no one was actually hexing you. Your enemies are powerless or not interested or you are not worth the cost, which is great. The only thing you are fighting here is yourself. Nobody is immune to bad things happening. 

I am always surprised at how many people are being told they are cursed. This is not to say that clairvoyance is false but I have had my share of terrified clients who come to me after having been dominated and hooked by tarot readers for years and even decades. If I confirmed that there is no curse, I always try to explain them how this stuff works.

Hang in there - everything will go all right. You can also take a strategic approach to improve your existence, but removing alleged spiritual attacks from your thoughts is the first step. 

The Most Common Lie People Hear in Tarot Readings

Tarot is a pretty fascinating tool. This beautiful deck of illustrated cards used for the purposes of divination is tempting, attracting and alluring. People who turn to tarot have normally a tormented sense of the future and they need reassurance. When powerful emotions are at stake, tarot spreads can feel incredibly powerful. 

But the truth is: tarot is just worthless non-sense.

I really feel this strongly about tarot. 

It might seem strange that someone in the occult doesn’t rely on tarot, but after years of hearing customers talk about crazy predictions that never arrived, it becomes difficult to ignore the pattern. I’ve spoken to countless people in real distress because a reader had convinced them they were cursed or under attack, when nothing of the sort was actually happening. I've seen what these predictions do to intelligent, rational people: they eventually stop thinking for themselves. They outsource every decision to tarot, checking the cards repeatedly until their anxiety feels momentarily soothed. 

The psychic behind the cards it's very likely combining high-probability guesses with carefully elaborated language. Readers are bold and good listeners responding to verbal cues and body language -they can learn a lot about you just from your facial expressions and even the way you dress and behave. If you look concerned, they plant a seed ("there is some dark energy around you") and then just need to wait. What happens next is up to you. 

Every reading follows a predetermined script and once you learn to spot it, it becomes incredibly obvious. The human mind is exceptional at making us think generic things are specifically about us. 

But there's more. 

The Other Woman Hired a Spell Caster

There’s a very common story that shows up when romantic situations fall apart and nothing makes sense anymore. 

The romantic equivalent of the you are cursed charade is there's another woman doing spell work on your man. I would say a lot of my female customers hopelessly in love who order tarot readings come to me saying the same thing: there's another woman doing black magic on their target because the energy reader just confirmed. The situation varies, perhaps it's a husband growing distant, a shady boyfriend or a friend with benefits that comes and goes, but the explanation remains the same. You have officially a competitor who wants the same person and it's actively working to have them. 

This is called interference and sounds alarming but it's also a relief, because it provides a logic explanation to a situation extremely painful. "That's why this guy left/doesn't want to be with me", or "that's why my love spells are taking more time to work than I expected". 

If you know for certain that there is a third person or your target is married or in a relationship, it's even easier to rationalise the revelation. Your rival is keeping your man thanks to the help of the dark forces. 

You are actually doing black magic on this person. Why wouldn't another woman do exactly the same?

This lie is just one of the ways occultists use to fool you. The power of suggestion is extremely persuasive in how we view reality. Fortune tellers posses an impressive ability to manipulate human credulity and it's a reasonable guess to believe that your ex boyfriend's girlfriend is paying another psychic to block him with negative energy that would keep him away from you or whatever. 

That is the number one way to go into spiritual psychosis. 

And let's be real: sometimes, tarot readers just want to get rid of you. They tell you something that sounds convincing, and you leave... until the next time. 

Where is the Evidence of the Spell? 

First of all, is your point of interest really that special? This is the moment to stay grounded. Allowing obsession to take over your mind is not going to help you.

Having more than one woman doing magic on a man is rare, unless the target is highly desirable. Is he rich? Very handsome? 

This is where a bit of rational thinking helps. Why a pretty nineteen year old girl would do black magic on your decrepit and broke husband? Wanting something badly does not make it extraordinary. When you’re emotionally involved, the person you want naturally feels unique, important, even irreplaceable. Desire does that. There’s nothing wrong with it. But consider if your man has the qualities to make them the center of secret rivalries and occult battles. This is the moment to stay grounded.

To be clear, the only time I’ve actually seen multiple women doing spell work on the same man was when he was an athlete. In this scenario, the target was genuinely exceptional, a person with visibility, status, money, and constant attention. In those cases, competition is real, obvious, and intense and yes, other women can be investing their money and energy to get him. This also happens when the parties involved come from cultural backgrounds where black magic is not marginal, but openly practiced. People don’t hesitate, they simply do it. When rivalry exists in those contexts, magical action can be part of the landscape, not a story invented after the fact.

The presence of real ritual practice looks very different from the narratives commonly sold to desperate people. 

Stay Away from Readings after a Ritual

If you want to work with me but you completely buy into the whole medium/reader thing, please walk away because that mindset will make your magical journey a complete nightmare and I’m not interested in participating in that.

Divination in one form or another is as old as civilization itself. Tarot cards have been around since at least the mid-15th century. You’re not strange or naive for feeling drawn to it. It's completely normal to feel attracted, curious and even fascinated. But making decisions and doubting a future that is being carefully created by demons because of what a random tarot reader says is a horrific mistake. 

Ignorance is not bliss in this scenario unless you're ready to lose your mind.

If this person is genuinely what you want, I will help you to get your way in a relationship. Your happiness is what matters to me, and I know how to remove any obstacle, including other women, when it’s actually necessary. What I will not do is perform spell work that you don't need just because a buffoon needed to sound important. 

If you’re ready to stop spiraling and start moving forward with focus, this is where things actually begin.